Whether you are attending a networking event or an employer is observing how you might conduct yourself with a potential client during a meal or a social situation, table manners and good behaviors are essential skills. Stand out as a professional by following some simple guidelines.
Practice makes perfect, or at least will keep your hands from shaking as you cut your meat.
The Basics
- It is always better to stand and be ready to greet colleagues
- Keep one hand free for a handshake or to exchange business cards
- Make good eye contact, introducing yourself to the host/hostess
- Avoid approaching groups of two in deep conversation - Wait for a break to keep from interrupting!
- Ask people questions about themselves, the perfect ice-breaker!
- Always offer your contact information and make a graceful exit from conversations
- Always be on time - on time is at least 5 minutes early
- Don't place any items on the table (bags, purse, wallet, cell phone)
- Good posture is key and keep those elbows off the table
- If you arrive with a suit jacket on, it stays on!
- Not sure what utensil to use? Start from the outside and work your way in
- Don't waive utensils around when talking
- Rest your utensils on your plate rather than the table
- Put your napkin on your lap soon after being seated and place it in your chair if you leave the table and will be returning
- Remember - This is not about the food! Relax, listen and participate in the conversation
- Don't order messy food or the most expensive item on the menu
- Avoid alcohol, even if the interviewer orders a drink
- Wait for everyone to be served before eating, unless the interviewer insists on you starting
- Pass food items to the right (bread, salad dressing)
- Spoon soup away from you and tear your bread into small pieces, only buttering the piece you are consuming
- Always taste your food before seasoning it
- When finished, leave your plate(s) in position and do not push them aside or stack
- Lay your service-ware across the plate at 10:00 & 4:00 to indicate that you are finished with your meal
- Thank your host/hostess